Optimizing Ourselves to Death

Science

Nick Maggiulli:

Perell highlights the fatal flaw of optimization—what’s it all for? What’s the point of better health if you have no one to spend it with? What’s the point of being sexy if you aren’t having sex? What’s the point of living forever if you have nothing to live for? We need a push toward “unoptimization” as Tim Denning calls it, to solve this. Because we aren’t machines. We aren’t pins in a pin factory. We are people. And people don’t need optimization. If you’re a manufacturer trying to make millions of products or a search engine trying to answer billions of queries, you need optimization. But if you’re an individual trying to live a good life, you don’t. What you need is purpose, fulfillment, and connection. Yes, you also need good health, a good career, and good prioritization of your time. But these pursuits shouldn’t consume your every waking hour. 

I think I needed to read this right now.

Recommendation: Cheap Charts

Apps

Over the years I’ve been slowly adding to my digital movie collection. For films I love, I like to have them in 4K as part of my collection for easy rewatching. I’ve maintained a Plex server for years, but there are certain movies where I want the best quality, best sound, and don’t want to store them on a hard drive. (And yes, I know buying physical media would do this too, but Hannah may kill me if I buy more stuff to collect, she already puts up with my vinyl.) Like, I’ve seen Jaws so many times having it in 4K is just a no-brainer. However, who wants to spend more than they have to on this stuff? In this economy? Not me.

CheapCharts is an app I’ve been using for a while that helps. (App Store link.)

You go through, favorite the movies you want to watch, and it’ll let you know when the price drops. I’ve regularly found movies that were $19.99 go on sale for $4.99 and a few days later jump back to the regular price. I am not sure why, but I don’t really care.

Some Apple Related First Impressions

Apple

Quick first impressions of some Apple related things:

  • The cameras on the 17 Pro are fantastic, especially the selfie camera. Coming from the iPhone 14 Pro this was a massive jump up in quality and worth the upgrade alone. I like the Camera Control button.
  • My first phone with an Action Button. I currently have it set to my custom settings Shortcut.1 That frees up a spot on my home screen and so far it’s working for me.
  • I decided to try a TechWoven case and I love how it feels in hand. This has been the surprise win for me.
  • iOS 26 has some issues, sure, but I do not hate it as much as I was worried I would. I’m getting used to it. Background images in Messages is fun. I’ve had more “oh that’s cool” moments than I have “I hate this.” I did have to change Safari tab bar back, the compact version sucked.
  • The entire look of iOS 26 made me feel like my entire “aesthetic” of my phone layout was old. Which, to be fair, it was. I have kept it pretty similar since around iOS 14 and the main screen was almost always very monochrome. But iOS 26 just screams for color and I was ready for some more color in my life. I’m still playing around with how I want it to look, but my first pass is leaning in the right direction.
  • I also upgraded my watch from the Series 6, after five years the battery was really showing its age, and I really love how the natural titanium looks. The finger tap/wrist flick gestures are more convenient than I expected.
  • I do not plan to upgrade my Mac to Tahoe for a bit. Everything I’ve seen leads me to believe it’s very much not ready.


  1. The Shortcut described and shown in the third image.

Last.fm Top 9 Shell Script

Terminal

I’ve been posting up my “Top 9” (a grid of my most played albums of the week) to my blog, in the forums, and on Instagram for a very long time now. It’s a fun weekly tradition that I (and others in the forum) participate in to share the music that’s been prominent in our weeks. The quick easy way to make a grid is using something like TapMusic.

However, I finally wrote a simple shell script that uses the Last.fm API to do this as well. Now I can just run the script, and it will create the graphic, save it to my Desktop, calculate the “stats” for the last week, and copy those to my clipboard.

Automation is fun.

Days Gone By

Stars

It’s happening more frequently now.

I’ll open up Facebook, that hellscape of a website, just to see if there are any updates from people I used to know.

It’s almost never good.

If I’m lucky it’s a few photos of kids. At the start of the school year I get to see how much they’ve aged. This brings a smile to my face as I see their children starting to look more like the parents I knew. The resemblance as they enter young adulthood becomes uncanny.

But more often it’s condolences. Posts on walls of those no longer with us. Names from classes and yearbook years I thought I forgot.

It’s happening more frequently now. And it’s fucking with my head.

Activate Dark Mode Based on iOS Focus Mode

iPhone

I’ve written before about my home screens and how I use Focus Modes. But one trick I recently added was a simple automation that also triggers Dark Mode when my “Day’s Over” Focus Mode is activated.

  1. Open the Shortcuts app on your iPhone.
  2. Go to the Automation tab.
  3. Tap + → Create Personal Automation.
  4. Scroll down and choose Focus.
  5. Select the Focus mode you want.
  6. Choose Turns On → tap Next.
  7. Tap Add Action → search for Set Appearance.
  8. Choose Set Appearance → select Dark.
  9. Tap Next → disable Ask Before Running (to make it automatic).
  10. Tap Done.

Basic, simple, but a nice little improvement.

The Hopeful Romantics

Hugh Howey, writing on his blog:

Three weeks ago, I was at dinner with a mix of close friends and strangers. At some point, the conversation strayed into the minefield of politics and current events. The person to my left commented on how difficult it’s been to remain positive lately. It was easy to compile a list of the many reasons anyone had to be dour. With two young kids at home, she worried not just about their future, but how to inspire in the present. How to instill in them the hope that she remembered feeling at their age. The hope that only recently had begun to dim.

It’s a conversation I’ve had with myself many times, and one Shay and I have been having a lot recently. We are both happy, cheerful people. We tend to see the good in others. We also see the long arc of history bending toward the positive. But it’s hard to deny the backwards steps that occur along the way. As I type this, injustices are fanning out at a blistering pace. Hardworking people are being rounded up by the descendants of those who stole this land. Wars of conquest and aggression are taking the lives of hundreds of thousands. Bombs rain down on children because of the hubris and greed of men. Northers off Cape Hatteras. Hurricanes of violence and fear.

YouTube Channel Recommendation: Low End University

YouTube

I posted about Low End University yesterday on the homepage, and since then have gone down the rabbit hole of watching a whole lot of his videos breaking down (and getting into) a bunch of punk classics. Great channel. Highly recommend. Great insight and a genuine delight as he discovers a genre dear to my heart. A handful of my favorites so far:

The Best Time to Start a Blog, Is Now

Adam Mastroianni:

The blogosphere has a particularly important role to play, because now more than ever, it’s where the ideas come from. Blog posts have launched movements, coined terms, raised millions, and influenced government policy, often without explicitly trying to do any of those things, and often written under goofy pseudonyms. Whatever the next vibe shift is, it’s gonna start right here.

The villains, scammers, and trolls have no compunctions about participating—to them, the internet is just another sandcastle to kick over, another crowded square where they can run a con. But well-meaning folks often hang back, abandoning the discourse to the people most interested in poisoning it. They do this, I think, for three bad reasons. 

One: lots of people look at all the blogs out there and go, “Surely, there’s no room for lil ol’ me!” But there is. Blogging isn’t like riding an elevator, where each additional person makes the experience worse. It’s like a block party, where each additional person makes the experience better. As more people join, more sub-parties form—now there are enough vegan dads who want to grill mushrooms together, now there’s sufficient foot traffic to sustain a ring toss and dunk tank, now the menacing grad student next door finally has someone to talk to about Heidegger. The bigger the scene, the more numerous the niches.

Smart People Don’t Chase Goals

Linked List

Joan Westenberg:

The cult of goal-setting thrives in this illusion. It converts uncertainty into an illusion of progress. It demands specificity in exchange for comfort. And it replaces self-trust with the performance of future-planning. That makes it wildly appealing to organizations, executives, and knowledge workers who want to feel like they’re doing something without doing anything unpredictable. But the more interesting question is: who is not setting goals? And why?

It turns out that many of the people doing genuinely innovative work avoid explicit goals entirely. They work within constraints instead.

Loved this.

Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish

The Steve Jobs Archive:

To celebrate the 20th anniversary of Steve’s commencement address at Stanford, we are sharing a newly enhanced version of the video below and on YouTube. It is one of the most influential commencement addresses in history, watched over 120 million times, and reproduced in media and school curricula around the world. The talk even helped inspire an unlikely NBA title comeback for the Cleveland Cavaliers when LeBron James played a clip from it in the locker room before a critical game three against the Golden State Warriors in 2016.

I have linked to and cited this speech many times over the years but wanted to post it, yet again.

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‘I’d Rather Read the Prompt’

Linked List

Clayton Ramsey:

I now circle back to my main point: I have never seen any form of create generative model output (be that image, text, audio, or video) which I would rather see than the original prompt. The resulting output has less substance than the prompt and lacks any human vision in its creation

28 Slightly Rude Notes on Writing

Linked List

#16:

I worked in the Writing Center in college, and whenever a student came in with an essay, we were supposed to make sure it had two things: an argument (“thesis”) and a reason to make that argument (“motive”). Everybody understood what a “thesis” is, whether or not they actually had one. But nobody understood “motive”. If I asked a student why they wrote the essay in front of them, they’d look at me funny. “Because I had to,” they’d say.

Most writing is bad because it’s missing a motive. It feels dead because it hasn’t found its reason to live. You can’t accomplish a goal without having one in the first place—writing without a motive is like declaring war on no one in particular.

I recommend this entire thing.

‘Minimum Viable Curiousity’

AI

Michael Lopp, writing at Rands:

I’ve made a career being a human terrified by becoming irrelevant long before AI showed up to drive my car. You bet I am poking every bit of AI that I can. Daily. I am trying to figure out what it can and can’t do, and this article aside, I am optimistic, just like I’ve been for the last three decades, that revolutionary innovations will knock your socks off in the next few years. It’s still early days for AI. Really.

However, I am deeply suspicious of AI, especially after watching decades of social networks monetize our attention while teaching us to ignore facts and truth, minimizing our desire to understand. Many humans don’t check their facts; they believe what they read in the feed. Most humans believe the manufactured reality is designed to get them to believe someone else’s agenda. The convenience of these services and tools has made us lazy and, worse, not curious.